Weirdness

[badseed1980]

Hmm. Date tomorrow, apparently, after the stuff about time and place gets set up. This is weird. I don't do this. I guess it's pretty much the way I have to do things these days though. I should get a copy of Ethical Slut too, so I can train myself to be one instead of being what comes naturally to me: a serial monogamist. It seems odd for me to try to change the way I think and feel about fundamental things in order to fit the life I have now, rather than the other way around. But then, it may well be easier.
I'm thinking that Indian place in Davis sounds pretty good. At least if I go there, the food will be nummy. Mmm...masala dosa.

Comments

[tisana.livejournal.com]

"what comes naturally to me: a serial monogamist"

Hey, you too?? Bloody hard habit to break, isn't it?
It's funny--some think monogamy is hard, but it's not really the case...it's breaking from what seems most natural to oneself that's hard.

[ladymarrahgoode.livejournal.com]

I cant do multiple relationships..... no problem with a fuck buddy on the side though ...LOL

[badseed1980.livejournal.com]

I could NEVER do multiple real relationships. I've tried being involved with one guy who I really really liked (and who was in love with me) while still being involved with another guy who I really loved. The one I loved was overseas and we had agreed on being open. Still, it just felt weird and almost ruined my friendship with the other guy. Fortunately, as soon as I said "no more", he fell madly in love with someone else within a month. Almost insulting, that, but it saved our friendship in the end. :)