Ooogh.

Tired.

So. Very. Tired.

I wasn't going to log in to Yahoo again last night after my shower, but I did. I'm glad I did, but oh boy am I tired.

I am grateful for elissa_carey's sensible statements. It all boils down to this:

"If you can show me through your actions that I make you as happy as she does, and that you want to make ME happy as much as you want to make HER happy, the exact count of words or hours will not matter. But trying to even those things up a bit is a good start, since they have swung back and forth like a pendulum in the past. Trying to be more equal in your treatment of us will show the effort and care that is what really matters."

And this:

"If you love two people, you love them in different ways and for different reasons. But you can still feel the same intensity of love for both. And if you do, you should show it through your actions."

And this:

"I will try to make sure that you feel you can express your pain without getting jumped on and attacked. But keep in mind, it's a LOT easier for me to do that when you don't keep (as elissa_carey put it) 'stepping on my toes in the same spot.'"

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